HaDiFf Tantrum StRiKeS uS!

Orang tua2 said beralih bulan... .. i guess it getting worst each day..started when his age strikes 1, his normal charming sweet little baby boy turned to meghap boy.. he hates to be alone.. he hates his toys..sometimes he seems to hate everything around him..

Soklan biasa from me and Mr Asben "Hadiff nak apa nih?".."Hadiff dah besaqlaa..manaleh dukung2.."

So I searched around if I missed anything..

Question: What Can I Do About My Baby's Tantrums?

Answer:

Learn about it
A baby's first tantrum can take you by surprise. Your baby can really shock you by shrieking, stamping, hitting, or making his whole body go stiff. But don't take it personally; baby tantrums aren't about anything you've done wrong, and they aren't really about temper, either -- your baby isn't old enough for that. The ways you’ll respond to your baby's behavior when he is older are different than how you should respond now.

Why babies have tantrums and what you can do about it
A baby tantrum is an abrupt and sudden loss of emotional control. Various factors bring tantrums on, and if you can identify the trigger, then you can help him calm down -- and perhaps even avoid the tantrum in the first place. Here are the common reasons and ways to solve the problem:

Overtiredness -- Settle baby down to sleep; Provide quiet activity.

Hunger -- Give baby a snack or something to drink.

Frustration -- Help baby achieve his goal or remove the frustration; Use distraction.

Fear/anxiety -- Hold and cuddle baby; Remove baby from difficult situation.

Inability to communicate -- Try to figure out what he wants; Calmly encourage him to show you.

Resisting change -- Allow a few minutes for baby to make adjustment.

Overstimulation -- Move baby to a quiet place.

How to prevent baby tantrums
Often, you can prevent a baby from losing control of his emotions if you prevent the situations that lead up to this. Here are some things to keep in mind:

When baby is tired, put him down for a nap or to sleep.

Feed your baby frequently. Babies have small tummies and need regular nourishment.

Give your baby toys that are geared to his age and ability level.

Warn your baby before changing activities ("One more swing, then we're going home").

Be patient when putting your baby in an unfamiliar environment or when introducing him to new people.

Help your baby learn new skills (such as climbing stairs or working puzzles).

Keep your expectations realistic; don't expect more than your baby is capable of.

As much as possible, keep a regular and predictable schedule.

When your baby is overly emotional, keep yourself as calm as possible.

Use a soothing tone of voice and gentle touch to help your baby calm down. He can't do it on his own, he needs your help.

Source : http://babyparenting.about.com/od/babies212months/f/babytantrum.htm

I also found that if your child can understand you, you shouldn't give in. THEY want to see if they can get what they want and if they realize that by throwing tantrums they will get it, they will definitely do it again!!

Makan2 kat Opis

Rini saya sangat kebulur lapar..dah makan macam2 tolak batu kayu sibek ada
serdak kuih raya lemau lam tepawer belakang meja opismate..

teringat semalam ada sesi Sambutan Hari Raya Peringkat Kebangsaan opis.. banyak makanan..tp nyesal xmakan semua jeniss..bila asik lapar nih..
lagi saya rasa menyesal..ngeh..ngeh..ngeh..
oo nasik dagang semalam memang sedap..untung director kawen dengan org kelantan..
rasa macam nakpi kelantan..ehh nasik dagang trengganu lagik sedapkan..
teringat makan kat cafe di UNI lu..sepinggan singgit..xdak dah rasanyaa cafe tu
nasik dan cafe tu dah xdak dahh..dan mana nak jumpa dah sepinggan singgit.

Dengan geng hijau..

Semakkan meja saya..tu tandanyaa saya sangat berlagak sebok..

Hadiff Dah Besar!!

Hadiff dah besar laa Ummi!! (Walaupun xleh jalan lagik)

When he was so kecik, he could sit quietly in his stroller

Now, I bet he could only stand in there for only 15minutes!When he was so kecik, he love to be carried in his pouch and sling

Now, he will squirm and and scream, unless he is asleep.
When he first got to know the troley, he would grin widely with his feet dangling when we placed him in the slot near to the handle.
Now he hates it. What he loves so much is
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He wants to be free in the trolley so that he can move around. There was one time he managed to took off his pants.(thanks god not his diaper!)

HaDiAh BeSdAy hAdIFF

Hadiff,

Ni hadiah besday dari Ummi tuk Hadiff..Abah xsuka bg material (Ummi yg materialistik...HAHAHAHAH) , Abah bg Amanah Sham Didik kat Hadiff, InsyaAllah Abah akan boh tiap2 tahun..(tp Abah ckp xmo bgtau sampy Hadiff dah 18Tahun..).

Hadiff suka dak beskal nih, Ummi ngan Abah leh tolak2 sampy Hadiff pandai kayuh sendiri naa.. (berjalan pun xterrer lagik..heheheh).

Hadiff suka sangat sampy nak mandi semalam pun kena perang besaqkan... pastu merajuk xmo tengok beskal tu...tp Hadiff eksen saja kannn.... pastu macam xmo tidoq semalam dok belek2..(besalaaa kann kita pun camtu gakkan kalau dapat benda baru kann..)..

Hadiff posing with his new beskal (sesungut dah tercabut semalam..dan sebelah lagi tercabut pagi tadi....pasni xtaulaa apa pulak yg tercabut)

Ngah explore barang baru.. "Selamatkaa tayar nih?"

Aikk?!! Hadiff bukan jadik passenger naaa..kena dok depan!


Aiyakk!! Suka dok lam ni lakk..

Sebabkan Hadiff suka dok lam bakul kuning tu..Abah dah cabut keluaq..Sowi naaa... merbahaya tuk kesihatan.. tp yg lawaknyaa pagi tadi Hadiff amik bakul tu try boh balik kat beskal... hehehhehe ingat noo...

KiSaH PaGi TaDi - Di KKIA

Rini budak kecik kena cucuk MMR, dah cukup setawun.. klinik kat umah ngah renovation so kami menuju la ke KKIA Parit Buntaq... masa tu dah almost koi 8, hmm... kagum toi nengok staff kat situ kelam kelibut punch card..pastu ku perasan ada pakcik dok tunggu kat depan punch card.. ku ingatkan dia nak monitor sapa yg terlewat...

Tetiba... (taim tu tengok punch machine dah koi 8.02pg)

Sorang kakak nih : Ish..nih silap nih jam nih... kat keta baru 7.59..kat sini dah 8.02.. pakcik.. kena tukaq nih..
Pakcik yg tunggu kat depan tu : Ya ka? Nak tukaq? Hmm...
Pastu xsemena2 kakak dengan sorang staff pompuan lagik dok kalut2 cari pen.. nampaknya depa xpunch tp tulis taim masuk...hmmmmm

Kejadian seterusnya..

Mailaa sorang staff nih dengan baju batik segala (lelaki) nampak cam berpangkat sikit..
Kiranya taim tu lewat rr... pakcik tu pun kalut2 cam nak ubah taim kat mesin punch card tu..
Pakcik : Ni silap nih...nak ubah dak? Nak ubah saya boleh buat (Pakcik tu dah pegang mesin punch card tu)
Org lelaki berbaju batik : Xyah laa...tp dengan senyum2 (<--dia xpunch pun tengok...).. kalau terawai satgi leh balik awai..

Ku and hubby memang gelak tengok gelagat depa...klakarlaaa...
to org gomen yg baca posting nih..ada soklan sikit..
1- akan effect appraisal hangpa ka kalau kad punch kaler merah?
2- memang kat opis gomen still guna mesin punch card yg mechanical tu ka? Ha laa sejak ku keja nih dari dulu lagi opis ku guna yg digital..

Me and Mr Asben wat conclusion yg pakcik tu memang ada kaitan dengan mesin punch card..
and sibek kami xkeja gomen..sebab memanjangggg jaa lambat masuk opis..

Apa2 pun HadiffBolat memang enjoy his visit to KKIA. Tengoklah siap leh men2 tunggang kuda plastik lagik... kena cucuk maintain macho.. misi2 dok puji xnangis ka paa..dia siap leh tengok lagik misi dok cucuk lengan dia.. Baiknyaaa adik nih.. hehehheheheh anak sapa kan..