BiO OiL AnD My pReGnAnCy

I had a tough time during my pregnancy last time..I mean on the strech marks and icthiness of my bulging belly. During that time, I did not look for any info on how to eliminate the problem from the mag or internet. Just based on my kakak kilang experience only. They said just buy a lotion and start scrubbing it at the bottom of my belly as well as at paha and at the back side.So I just bought a cheap lotion with apple scent from Tupperware. But it did not work well, I mean I still have the scratch marks that my hubby always commented look like a cheetah.. adeyy...

Influenced by the advertisements on TV that this magical oil can help to yada..yada..yada, I thought of giving it a try..

My testimonial after been using it for 1 month (recommended to use it consistently for 3 months for scar removal)
Oiliness - I found it quite surprising as after the application, my belly does not "feel" oily neither my palm. It does moisturize the skin and less itchy (no that it can eliminate it 100%)
Scent - I am that type of person who hates product with fragrance accept of course perfume. Bio Oil does emit a light "oil" scent but not really disturbing.
Scratch mark removal - My scratch mark tone seems (or is it my imigination?) to lighten. But I cannot confirm this as my belly is actively expanding and may stretch my skin.

Is Bio Oil halal?
Bio Oil does not contain any animal derivative. It is basically mineral oils, herbs oil, and synthetic oil.

Ingredients

Vitamin A Vitamin A (Retinyl Palmitate on the label) helps improve the skin’s elasticity, texture and tone. Vitamin E The most widely used antioxidant in skincare products today, Vitamin E increases the moisture content of the epidermis, making the skin softer, smoother and more supple. Vitamin E also assists in the proliferation and maintenance of healthy skin. Calendula oil Calendula Officinalis, more commonly referred to as marigold, has been used for centuries as a natural antioxidant and has the ability to clarify and condition the skin, while providing soothing and calming benefits for sensitive skin types. Lavender oil Lavender oil is well known for its skin conditioning properties, and is also effective in calming and soothing the skin. Rosemary oil Rosemary oil helps to invigorate and condition the skin, and has calming and soothing properties. Chamomile oil Chamomile has a calming and soothing effect and is particularly beneficial for sensitive skin. It also helps to condition and clarify the skin, assisting to maintain its natural health. PurCellin Oil™ PurCellin Oil™ acts as a delivery system for Bio-Oil’s other ingredients, dramatically improving its application and spreadability, and allowing for targeted absorption into the skin. Full ingredient listing Paraffinum Liquidum Triisononanoin Cetearyl Ethylhexanoate Isopropyl Myristate Retinyl Palmitate Tocopheryl Acetate Anthemis Nobilis Flower Oil Lavandula Angustifolia (Lavender) Oil Rosmarinus Officinalis (Rosemary) Leaf Oil Calendula Officinalis Flower Extract Helianthus Annuus (Sunflower) Seed Oil Glycine Soja (Soybean) Oil BHT Bisabolol Parfum Amyl Cinnamal Benzyl Salicylate Citronellol Coumarin Eugenol Geraniol Hydroxycitronellal Hydroxyisohexyl 3-Cyclohexene Carboxaldehyde Limonene Linalool Alpha-Isomethyl Ionone CI 26100 Those who would like to try...just buy this..I bought the smallest bottle at RM32. Okayla..if it does not work on you, xlaa terasa sangat kan..

NeW pOuCh iN ThE HoUsE!

Gilaa..... beli lagik BW gadget... ingatkan dah tak ber BW Hadiff (peknen kann), me will temporary hold my nafsu to buy any BW gadget... tp mana makcik nak tahan kan..when TinyTapir had a superb cut down price on their Littlepods pouch..from RM85 to RM45.. thanks to Aishah for blogging about this... murah tu...

Hubby as usual senyum jaa tengok itu purchase...haalaa dahlaa guna shipping address umah kak dia.. ngeh..ngeh..ngeh... suka ati jaa diri ini..

What do I like about this pouch?
When I feel the fabric...wow superb!! not like my MLC which has a distendable fabric and useless now!! Regret of buying it! Huhhh!! (tp dah banyak berjasalaaa). Littlepods pouch is made of 97% polyester 3%spandex and comes with padded edge.
Colour... I chose turquoise since I do not have any BW gadget with that colour..and i think Mr Asben won't mind using the pouch with that colour... halaa kalau pinky minky camtu mau dia xmo pakai kann...
Action pic? memang xdaklaa...will be used for my second child bila dia lahir nanti... tu dia..persiapan lain not yet done, tp leh beli BW gadget lagi for him..or her??

Pompuan..pompuan..

Wanna Win Posh Sunglass and 60% Discount on Frame? Answer this!

Since saya dapat tag nih dari Hanim, dan ada contest yg best related to this tag... me definitely do not want to miss this great chance..bestnya kalau dapat sunglass baru kan...dapat diskaun frame pun tersangatlaa bestnya..

Untuk join contest ini... me must..

• Buat satu entry dan dalam entry itu, jawab soalan2 yang Dayah reka. Saya hanya ubah sikit2 untuk menguji kefahaman anda.
• Tagkan ia kepada berapa orang pun...tak kisah. Cuma tolong nyatakan, SAYA DI TAG OLEH......... (saya akan usahakan sunglass percuma juga untuk perujuk teramai cuma belum difikirkan yang mana satu jenamanya)
• Jika anda telah buat entry dengan soalan2 itu, sila letakkan permalink anda di Uwaiys Optometrist sahaja. Tanpa permalink, anda akan terlepas tawaran hebat ini.
• Sila copy paste keseluruhan entry ini ke dalam entry penyertaan anda.
• Tarikh akhir tag ini untuk sesi pertama adalah 28 Feb 2010.

Saya ditag oleh Hanim

Soalan yang perlu dijawab adalah :

1. Sejak bila anda mula berkaca mata ?

Saya mula berkaca mata ketika di tingkatan satu. Namun pada permulaannya saya hanya suka-suka memakai cermin mata kakak saya. Saya masih ingat bingkai plastik berwarna pink dan bersaiz besar. Apabila terdedah dengan cahaya matahari, cermin mata tersebut berubah ke warna hitam. Wahhh umpama artis memakai cermin mata hitam ketika itu. Walaupun mata saya sememangnya ada sedikit rabun, tetapi power cermin mata kakak saya adalah lebih tinggi dan menyebabkan saya sedikit pening. Tapi saya terus memakainya sebab saya rasa saya kelihatan cantik dan bijak.

2. Bagaimana anda tahu yang anda memerlukan kacamata ketika itu?

Saya mula yakin yang mata saya rabun apabila saya tidak dapat membaca dengan jelas apa yang ditulis oleh guru di papan hitam. Ditambah dengan hobi saya membaca buku cerita dengan sedikit cahaya tempias dari lampu koridor (bilik asrama sudah padamkan lampu).

3. Berapa ‘power’ pada permulaan anda berkaca mata (anggaran)?

Sewaktu saya mula berkaca mata dengan cermin mata saya sendiri, power ketika itu adalah 50-50.

4. Jenis/bentuk kaca mata anda yang pertama?

Bingkai besi berwarna merah gelap dengan cermin kaca yang hanya bertahan selama seminggu. Cermin mata saya pecah kerana terjatuh dari katil atas. Akibatnya, saya terpaksa belajar tanpa cermin mata selama sebulan kerana takut hendak beritahu ayah. Risaulaa takut kena marah.

5. Jenis/bentuk kaca mata anda yang terkini?

Bingkai plastik berwarna hitam dengan cermin plastik yang tebal yang dibeli dengan harga yang sangat murah. Saya ingat lagi saya masuk ke dalam sebuah kedai optometry di Kamunting dan berkata “saya nak beli cermin mata yang paling murah sebab saya pakai contact lense. Cermin mata hanya akan dipakai sebelum tidur sahaja”. Oleh itu cermin mata saya hanya berharga RM100 sahaja.

6. Berapa power terkini anda (anggaran)?

Power contact lense saya sekarang adalah 525 kedua2 belah mata. Power cermin mata, saya tak tahu.

7. Berapa banyak koleksi kaca mata yang anda ada dari dulu hingga kini (anggaran)?

Anggaran sepuluh, kekerapan menukar cermin mata bergantung kepada bajet dan juga keaktifan saya bersukan (waktu musim sukan cermin mata saya selalu patah).

8. Jika anda ada sentiment tidak suka berkaca mata, sila nyatakan sebab musababnya.

Cermin mata membuatkan keluasan penglihatan saya terbatas dengan bingkai.

9. Yang mana anda lebih gemar. Kaca mata atau contact lens? Kenapa ?

Saya lebih menggemari contact lense kerana:-

a- Saya tidak perlu membuka cermin mata ketika mandi di bilik air atau di luar.

b- Jika memakai cermin mata bila keluar dari bas berhawa dingin, cermin akan berwap menyebabkan saya terpaksa membuka cermin mata dan mengelapnya.

c- Saya seorang yang sangat aktif memanjat gunung, jika memakai cermin mata saya perlu berhati-hati takut cermin mata terjatuh (seperti rakan saya yang cermin matanya hanyut di sungai gunung tahan menyebabkan dia terpaksa dipimpin sehingga tamat ekspedisi) tetapi dengan contact lense kita boleh membawa spare sebanyak yang mungkin (tak guna ruang yang banyak).

d- cermin mata memerlukan penjagaan dan pengawasan yang lebih takut dipijak orang terutamanya dengan anak kecil yang mengganggap cermin mata sesuatu yang sangat menarik untuk dijadikan permainan.

e- Semasa saya bersekolah dahulu, cermin mata saya selalu bengkok akibat terkena bola.

f- saya pernah terpaksa berlawan silat dalam kerabunan (dahla lawan saya gelap gulita) di dalam gelanggang silat yang suram kerana cermin mata tidak dibenarkan dipakai atas sebab2 keselamatan.

g- Peluh pada hidung yang berkumpul pada cermin mata menyebabjan terjadinya fungus (kehijauan) pada cermin mata dan menyebabkan hidung saya gatal-gatal dan tidak selesa.

h- Gambar yang diambil dengan memakai cermin mata menghasilkan reflection menyebabkan gambar tidak cantik.

i- dengan memakai contact lense saya nampak lebih muda, bak kata rakan saya bila nampak saya memakai cermin mata, saya kelihatan seperti nenek!

10. Optometrist pilihan anda?

Saya tidak ada optometrist pilihan. Saya membeli di kedai yang boleh menawarkan harga contact lense yang paling murah. Buat masa sekarang sebuah kedai di Econsave di Parit Buntar yang menjual Softlense dengan harga RM45 tuk 3 pasang, murahkann…kalau ada yang lagi murah harap beritahu saya naa..

11. Pasangan anda berkaca mata ?

Tidak dan dia sangat berbangga dengan matanya yang sihat dan normal itu. Hakikatnya saya cakap dia sebenarnya malas baca buku dulu.

12. Apa pandangan anda pada kanak2 yang memakai kaca mata?

Kasihan. Walaupun kanak-kanak kelihatan lebih comel dan bijak dengan memakai cermin mata, hakikatnya saya tahu bertapa sukarnya hidup mereka berbanding rakan yang tidak memakai cermin mata..

Nota untuk organizer:-

Pijah, Rozy xtau nak tag sapa.. sebab xtau sapa yg pakai spek, kebanyakkan org pakai contact lense so susah nak tau...

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Salam dan Selamat Sejahtera,

Saya nak ajak kawan2 semua join gathering RatuHati.com dan Susuibu.com Zon Utara.
Details seperti dibawah:-

Tempat : Taman Belia Pulau Pinang
Tarikh : 20/2/2010
Masa : 10pg - hingga abiss segala urusan
Tema baju : Hijau
Menu : Potluck

Agenda
1- Keselamatan Anak di rumah (tertakluk pindaan oleh speaker) by hubby Hana aka ibufarish
2- Babywearing dan cloth diapering by Shida (special topik breastfeeding while babywearing)
3- Breastfeeding talk by Dr Balkees
4- Drive test breastpump (sila bawak pam yg ada tuk ditest kawan2)
5- Lucky Draw (toke lucky draw - Aishah)

Turn-Ups
1- Rozy + Arie + HadiffBolat (spaghetti, sticker nama)
2- Lin + Hubby Lin + AdwanEncem (bihun goreng ngan cabai potong)
3- Ain + Najlatomey Mariza (silent reader SI-opismate) + Baby Aqilah - karipap dan coq badak
4- Shida _ Hubby _ Anis+ baby Irfan (pinggan dan cawan plastik)
5- Kikie + Hubby +Arane + Baby (Fruit Juice)
6 - Hana + Hubby + Farish + Baby Firas + adik ipar (pudding + ketui es)
7- Rinirini +hubby +Uda Mikael +Uda Rayyan (kek cekelat moist 2bijik + ciskek kalau rajin)
8- Aishah and family
9- Fiqa83 + hubby (mineral water)
10- Dayah + hubby + SI (nasi lemak)
11- Ibu Arifa + hubby + Arifa
12- Sara + hubby + H + H +Baby H
13- Ibu Arief +hubby+ lil arief (tat kastard)
14 - Durazali + hubby + Aidid +Airin (nasik himpit kuah kacang)
15 - Zah + hubby + anak
16 - Hafid + adik + 3org lagi + baby (naget goreng dan pengicahnya)
17 - Mamanoa + hubby + lil imran (mineral water size besar)
18 -As Zahir + Hubby (sandwich)
19- Umi_dd+ hubby +haziq + danish (muffin cekelat)
20- Sue + hubby + baby rayyan (fruit juice)
21- Adik ipar (Mala) + hasben + anak (kuah rojak sendiri bikin)
22- Sharilla = adik ipar + anak teruna + baby(dadih)
23- MamaBB + hubby + Bazli debab (bengkang kacang)
24 - Shirauzir + hubby + baby anas (kerepek)

Marilah beramai-ramai memeriahkan gathering kali ini....
jika berminat, sila inform saya tuk saya hapdet list turn-ups.
lupa pulak nak cakap, masuk adalah PERCUMA!!!!

Harap kawan2 leh war-warkan di blog masing2 naaa..

Terima kasih

Peta ke tempat kejadian

Gathering SI.com last year

kemudahan di Taman Belia Pulau Pinang

Swimming pool tuk anak2

PeTa dArI JaMBaTaN

Ni peta contengan ke tempat kejadian dari jambatan.. mesti ikut signboard Georgetown yer kawan2...

PeTa SeKeRaT Ke tAmN bELiA

Okes, since ada yg xtahu camna nakpi sana... sini me give you peta sekerat from Gurney Plaza.
Abaikan contengan tulis tangan ku yg kelam kelibut sebab kena rush masuk production sat lagi..
kalau ada yg xpaham atau buat2 xpaham..sila buat macm paham yaa... bagitau naa.. me will further navigate you to the place.. or better e-mail me for my phone number okahh!!

Updated as at today!

Tempat : Taman Belia Pulau Pinang
Tarikh : 20/2/2010
Masa : 10pg - hingga 2ptg (pastu leh pi berendam..)
Tema baju : Hijau

Agenda
1- Keselamatan Anak di rumah (tertakluk pindaan oleh speaker) by hubby Hana aka ibufarish
2- Babywearing dan cloth diapering by Shida (special topik breastfeeding while babywearing)
3- Breastfeeding talk by Dr Balkees (Overcoming Low weight Gain and how to improve the quality of the breastmilk)
4- Drive test breastpump (sila bawak pam yg ada tuk ditest kawan2)
5- Lucky Draw (toke lucky draw - Aishah)

Turn-Ups
1- Rozy + Arie + HadiffBolat (spaghetti, sticker nama)
2- Lin + Hubby Lin + AdwanEncem (bihun goreng ngan cabai potong)
3- Ain + Najlatomey Mariza (silent reader SI-opismate) + Baby Aqilah - karipap dan coq badak
4- Shida _ Hubby _ Anis+ baby Irfan (pinggan dan cawan plastik)
5- Kikie + Hubby +Arane + Baby (Fruit Juice)
6 - Hana + Hubby + Farish + Baby Firas + adik ipar (pudding + ketui es)
7- Rinirini +hubby +Uda Mikael +Uda Rayyan (kek cekelat moist 2bijik + ciskek kalau rajin)
8- Aishah and family
9- Fiqa83 + family
10- Dayah + hubby + SI (nasi lemak)
11- Ibu Arifa + hubby + Arifa
12- Sara + hubby + H + H +Baby H
13- Ibu Arief +hubby+ lil arief (tat kastard)
14 - Durazali + hubby + Aidid +Airin (nasik himpit kuah kacang)
15 - Zah + hubby + anak
16 - Hafid + adik + 3org lagi + baby (naget goreng beserta cicahannya)
17 - Mamanoa + hubby + lil imran (mineral water size besar)
18 -As Zahir + Hubby
19- Umi_dd+ hubby +haziq + danish (muffin cekelat)
20- Sue + hubby + baby rayyan (fruit juice)
21- Adik ipar (Mala) + hasben + anak (kuah rojak sendiri bikin)
22- Sharilla (dadih)

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PlAyRoOm HaDiFfBoLaT

Hadiff dah ada playroom, senang nak sepah2 apa2 pun kat dalam bilik tu ja.. it is also easier for me yang dah xlarat nak kemas-kemas *wink wink*.

Rajin-rajin baca buku naa

It started just a few weeks ago when i decided to clear up all the piling boxes (which I only moved them to the next room rajinnyaa). Then with a visit to DIY shop and a rm2 shop, I bought all the necessary decorations which includes that cheap padded rubber like floor mat.. What was I thinking when I first started the project? Just to fill up my time as Mr Asben was at that time busy traveling all around Malaysia checking the Umobile network. Yalaahhh dah tinggal dengan budak kecik nih ja better do something interesting kan.. however only when Mr Asben was back to Parit Buntar, I really started this project..hahahhaha *memang dasar M*

Hadiff pun involve in decorating his playroom

Hadiff really enjoy his playroom, the first thing he will do whenever we reach home is checking his playroom. At least this will keep him occupied for few minutes before he started looking for his Ummi and Abah (oopss Abah ja kot...anak Abah kann).. lega sikit nak wat apa2 lu..

Ada satu radio buruk lam bilik tu which Hadiff really loves..he knows how to play deejay.

Bila Ummi rajin...

Bila Hadiff rajin lak...

Three tags!

Rini di tag oleh mamanoa, and tertiba jaa ada mood nak jawap..(tag spek pun xjawap lagi...)

3 name i go by
1- Prof (kat skolah menengah)
2- Rozy (kawan and family)
3- Anna (kilang lani)

3 jobs i have had in my life
1- Sr RnD Engineer (kilang lani)
2- QA Technical Engineer (kilang lama)
3- KFC (setiap kali cuti semester)

3 places i have lived
1- Penaga yang tercinta
2- Kulim (kolej mara lu)
3- Kangaq (masa kecik2 lu)

3 TV shots i cannot miss
1- The Ghost Whisperer
2- Grey's Anatomy
3- Semua CSI

3 places i have been
1- Semua negeri di semenanjung malayasia
2- KK, Sabah
3- Kuching, Sarawak

3 places i want to go
1- Makkah
2- New Zealand
3- Krabi

3 of my fav foods
1- Chicken chop
2- Nasik Himpit ngan kuah kacang
3- Lemang cicah susu pekat

3 things i'm looking forward too
1- Birth of my second child
2 - Cuti2 Mesia ke KK lagiii
3- HadiffBolat xmerap dahhh

Pets that you have owned
1- Momo (kucing)
momo ja yg officially my pet..yg lain org lain punya...

Three fav band/ singer
1- Celine Dion
2- Liza Hanim
3- Sarah McLacland
band xdak yg minat

Three fav teams to watch
1- None
2- None
3- None

Three fav drinks
1- Horlicks ess
2- Amra
3- Milo es

Me nak tag
1- Dayah
2- Sara Ammi
3- Afne

UpDaTe GaThErInG RH.com + SI.com NoRtH ZoNe Part 2

Nak inform the latest update as at today...
take note ya, program akan bermula pukul 10 pagi..

Tempat : Taman Belia Pulau Pinang
Tarikh : 20/2/2010
Masa : 10pg - hingga 2ptg (pastu leh pi berendam..)
Tema baju : Hijau

Agenda
1- Keselamatan Anak di rumah (tertakluk pindaan oleh speaker) by hubby Hana aka ibufarish
2- Babywearing dan cloth diapering by Shida (special topik breastfeeding while babywearing)
3- Breastfeeding talk by Dr Balkees (Overcoming Low weight Gain and how to improve the quality of the breastmilk)
4- Drive test breastpump (sila bawak pam yg ada tuk ditest kawan2)
5- Lucky Draw (toke lucky draw - Aishah)

Turn-Ups
1- Rozy + Arie + HadiffBolat (spaghetti, sticker nama)
2- Lin + Hubby Lin + AdwanEncem (bihun goreng ngan cabai potong)
3- Ain + Hubby Ain + Najlatomey
4- Shida _ Hubby _ Anis+ baby Irfan (pinggan dan cawan plastik)
5- Kikie + Hubby +Arane + Baby (Fruit Juice)
6 - Hana + Hubby + Farish + Baby Firas + adik ipar (pudding + ketui es)
7- Rinirini +hubby +Uda Mikael +Uda Rayyan (kek cekelat moist 2bijik + ciskek kalau rajin)
8- Aishah and family
9- Fiqa83 + family
10- Dayah + hubby + SI (nasi lemak)
11- Ibu Arifa + hubby + Arifa
12- Sara + hubby + H + H +Baby H
13- Ibu Arief +hubby+ lil arief (tat kastard)
14 - Durazali + hubby + Aidid +Airin (muffin cekelat)
15 - Zah + hubby + anak
16 - Lyana + hubby + Qaseh
17 - Mamanoa + hubby + lil imran (mineral water size besar)
18 -As Zahir + Hubby
19- Umi_dd+ hubby +haziq + danish (nasik himpit + kuah kacang)

PrAiSe YoUr kIdS aNd PrAy fOr sUcCeSs

Hadiff is now 16months old and he really love to explore things and challenge his capability (as well as my patience). As some mothers are obliged to a very nicely arranged house rules, me on the other side care less for this. This is because I prefer Hadiff to 'play' means putting havoc on his toys and scatter it all over the house. I believe this indicates that learning process is taking place in a young human brain with an expanding/growing information archive.

Apart of letting him messing around with his toys, I found that praising does help him to learn more. Whenever he makes anything that he proud off, he will turn to me and smile and putting that cute begging face asking for praises. Well his wish is always been granted. With "pandainyeeeee" and clapping hands (which most of time he will join me), he will repeat the act again and again.

I do believe that praise can make our kids more motivated, more confident and more inclined to to tackle challenges. Praise can be a powerful form of encouragement. And study has shown that moms who praise their preschoolers for their good manners have kids with better social skills (Garner 2006; Hastings et al 2007).

What’s the right way to praise kids?

Good answers come from Jennifer Henderlong Corpus and Mark Lepper, psychologists who have analyzed over 30 years of studies on the effects of praise (Henderlong and Lepper 2002). They determined that praise can be a powerful motivating force if you follow these guidelines:

• Be sincere and specific with your praise - it does not really matter for a very young kids but when your kids are mature enough to understand your motives, it can be very damaging. They may question your sincerity and lead them to think you may not really understand them.

• Praise kids only for traits they have the power to change - avoid praising them because of their ability as they may try to distance themselves from any new challenge. They may think that by doing mistake, it shows lack of intelligence. Praise on things that they can clearly change.

• Use descriptive praise that conveys realistic, attainable standards - Praise that include the details of the achievement is more helpful than just a general praise. However, avoid praise that may sending a superhuman capability like "You are so good, I never see anyone that can do just like that". This praise can put pressure on kids to maintain the high standard or it may send message that your praise is inappropriate.

• Be careful about praising kids for achievements that come easily - This type of praise can send message that you are dumb and not realizing that the task is easy or it can also show that your kids are dumb. This type of praise may not really affect the young kids but when your kids are mature enough to understand you must be more cautious.

• Be careful about praising kids for doing what they already love to do - It is okay to praise our kids on any job well done but be cautious not to override it. If they receive the same praise whenever they do things that they already like, it may actually reduce the motivation to do it again. Kids do expect to get praises but when the praise is unexpected, it remains a powerful form of motivation.

• Encourage kids to focus on mastering skills—not on comparing themselves to others - Praise your kids on the skill they have to complete the task (mastery comparison) instead of on the fact they have finished the task first compare to their friends (social comparison). Kids that been praise on mastery comparison will have enhanced motivation but for kids who receive social comparison may demotivated when they are not able to beat their friend on the second task. Apart from this, kids that have been praise as social comparison may look at the work with lack of motivation. The work only looks interesting if it permits them to look the best or outperform their friends.

Worse is when they fail to be the first person to complete the task, they will feel helpless instead of learning from their mistake.

Extracted and summarized from http://www.parentingscience.com/effects-of-praise.html

UpDaTe GaThErInG RH.com + SI.com NoRtH ZoNe

Ni latest update as at today..

Tempat : Taman Belia Pulau Pinang
Tarikh : 20/2/2010
Masa : 9pg - hingga abiss segala urusan
Tema baju : Hijau

Agenda
1- Keselamatan Anak di rumah (tertakluk kepada pindaan oleh speaker) by hubby Hana aka ibufarish
2- Babywearing dan cloth diapering by Shida (special topik breastfeeding while babywearing)
3- Breastfeeding talk by Dr Balkees (Overcoming Low weight Gain and how to improve the quality of the breastmilk)
4- Drive test breastpump (sila bawak pam yg ada tuk ditest kawan2)
5- Lucky Draw (toke lucky draw - Aishah)

Turn-Ups
1- Rozy + Arie + HadiffBolat (spaghetti, sticker nama)
2- Lin + Hubby Lin + AdwanEncem
3- Ain + Hubby Ain + Najlatomey
4- Shida _ Hubby _ Anis+ baby Irfan (pinggan dan cawan plastik)
5- Kikie + Hubby +Arane + Baby (Fruit Juice)
6 - Hana + Hubby + Farish + Baby Firas + adik ipar (pudding)
7- Rinirini +hubby +Uda Mikael +Uda Rayyan
8- Aishah and family
9- Fiqa83 + family
10- Dayah + hubby + SI
11- Ibu Arifa + hubby + Arifa
12- Sara + hubby + H + H +Baby H
13- Ibu Arief +hubby+ lil arief (tat kastard)
14 - Durazali + hubby + Aidid +Airin (muffin cekelat)
15 - Zah + hubby + anak
16 - Lyana + hubby + Qaseh
17 - Mamanoa + hubby + lil imran (mineral water size besar)
18 -As Zahir + Hubby

Diharapkan, attendees kali nih boleh update makanan apa yg hendak dibawa..

Dan jangan lupa bawak hadiah tuk gift exchange.. tak kesahlaa samada barang tuk anak atau pun barang tuk mak bapak.. brapa banyak pun takpaa...rega berapa pun takpaa... (saya lebih suka barang yg tak mahal tapi banyak hadiah..supaya ramai orang boleh dapat...)

ada apa2 kemusykilan just let me know okay!!

EnTrY LUaHaN pErAsAaN - PenGaWaS sEkOLaH

"Hadiff dah sekolah nanti, kalau ble saya nak dia jadi pengawas"

Tu laa memanjang saya sebut kat Mr Asben tiap kali lalu depan sekolah rendah kat Simpang Semanggul..

Sebab apa?
Sebab dulu saya tidak pernah dilantik menjadi pengawas sekolah hatta pengawas perpustakaan..

Best sangat ka jadi pengawas sekolah?
Waktu saya kecik2 dulu, saya jeles dengan pengawas sekolah, pakai baju lawa (lain dari pelajar lain), pakai neck tie, kasut sekolah kaler hitam..macam best jaaa

Kenapa saya tidak dipilih? Entah..sedangkan...
Dulu saya seorang yg rajin (perasannnya) dan tergolong orang yg pandai gak laa (lagi perasan)..
tak pernah dapat no lebih dari angka 3..(hmm rasanya tak lebih angka 2) dalam darjah (darjah 1Hijau, 2Hijau, 3Hijau, 4Kuning, 5Kuning, 6 Kuning) dan salah seorang dari 4 org yg dapat straight As masa UPSR kat sekolah.
Aktif sangat kat sekolah (sebut ja..pasukan sukan apa semua join), masuk nasyid, kuiz matematik..
Boleh dikatakan hampir semua buku cita yg best2 kat library tingkat 3 tu, dah khatam...( muka lepak situ taim break)

Tapi kenapa tak terpilih r?
Setelah dah besar ni, saya buat penilaian..
so, keputusannya
1- Saya bukan anak cikgu,hanya anak pesara askar...kebanyakkan anak cikgu memang jadik pengawas.
2- Saya tidak comel, sebab kebanyakkan yang jadik pengawas adalah comel-comel belaka.
3- Saya agak selekeh, anak no 4 dari 6 orang..so manalaa ada masa mak saya nak cek saya pakai stokin betul ka or lain2 sebelah, baju senteng (saya cepat betul meninggi..)
4- Saya tak bagi hadiah2 yang besar kat cikgu masa Teacher's Day, manalaa keluarga saya mampu.

Oleh itu...
Saya nak tanya kepada kawan2 yg keja sebagai cikgu, apa kriteria yg diperlukan untuk seseorang pelajar tu dilantik menjadi pengawas. Sebab saya nak polish anak saya untuk jadik pengawas sekolah dan menghilangkan rasa terkilan yang saya rasa sampai sekarang..aci dak?

jangan lupa gathering RH.com dan SI.com ya!!